Just Sit and Watch!

I was wondering the other day, how many people have actually made an impact in other’s life? There are only handfuls that make them self count. Why is that so? What about the rest millions and billions who just come and go without doing any constructive worth remembering?

History tells us that this has always been the case. There are only 20% i.e. 10% on either side of the scale who make others life either better or worse while the remaining 80% just sit and watch!

To be honest, I find it very frustrating! It is so easy to sit back and criticize while equally hard to stand up and be counted. As I had explained in my previous post no one is happy in this life. If they say they are, it’s not true. Every body’s life is full of problems and struggles but if your attitude is positive, you face those worries with a smiling face. Coming back to this topic, do you love to be called a sitting duck? I hate this standard answer “What can I do?” Oh really! Have you ever cared about others as you do for your family? Have you ever had tears in your eyes for those who are suffering, like you have for your beloved? NO! Why? Because “I DON’T CARE”, “DO HELL WITH THE PEOPLE”. I have already got enough problems up my own sleeve to think about others.

Face it this is a reality. You can give lame excuses to others, but deep inside your heart, you know the truth. Remember, if you won’t feel for others and stand up for their rights, tomorrow when YOU will suffer, nobody will be there for you either. Guess what, if that’s the case, then I think YOU deserve what YOU get.

God made you a human with feelings, but you wished to live the life of an animal i.e. living for your own survival. Tomorrow don’t complain because you always preferred to just sit and watch!

Am I A Fool? I think I am. What about You?

As strange as it sounds, in reality it is true. How many of us have actually thought about it? Are we fools? As per my understanding, each and every one of us is gifted with a brain and ability to think no matter if you are a beggar or a king. We all are free and can think of what ever we feel like. Do you know what I am thinking of at the moment? No you don’t that’s its power. You may think I admire you but in reality you might be the person I hate the most.

Coming back to the original topic of my post “Am I A Fool?” Yes, I am. Why because I follow what others do. What Mr. XYZ says becomes a corner stone for me. You may call this madness or craziness, I don’t care because for me, he is every thing in the world. What ever he says is right and what the whole world says is wrong. If he says its day (be it night) I’ll still trust him. That’s called blind following.

How many of us actually do so? In reality a lot of us do this. Be it a politician, a celebrity, a sports man or any other person. We tend to idolize a person and then firmly believe in what he says. Why is the question that arises in mind? There is no doubt an emotional attachment with some one we like; agreed because it’s natural. Every other person has different tastes and preferences but blind following is madness.

Where is your thinking ability? Why don’t you think of it before you agree to it? Have we lost all our brains? If each one of us starts to think and react according to his understanding then there won’t be that much of a fuss around. Few days back I had an argument with one of my friends. Despite proving by facts that her stance was wrong, she still didn’t agree to it and was adamant on the point that if “he” has said so then that is it. 

Why do we even bother to acquire education when we have to do blind following? Why do we spend so much time on research and experiments when we will eventually succumb to what “he” has to say? Isn’t this annoying? Isn’t this frustrating? What a waste of an extremely valuable part of our body. It’s a complete shame, Pity on me! I believe at the end of the day, its better not to have the brain and thinking ability altogether then to have it displayed as an exhibition.

How Much Do You Know About Your Life?

Sounds strange when we hear of the word “life”. A 4 letter word which comprises of our entire time period on this planet. Strangely we hear it so many times that “enjoy life” but when it comes to death, we are either stunned, nervous or simply close our eyes and run away from reality. Is that it? There are 24 hours in a day. You wake up early morning, go to college, work place or where ever and then return home, relax and it’s the end of the day. Then the same cycle continues the next day and the same routine goes on and on till a time comes where it all has to end. It’s just like a journey where you go to spend holidays. Enjoy it fully and then there comes a time when you need to pack up and go from where you came.

Ok so what’s the big deal in it? Each person living on this planet Earth has a dream that I want to do this, and this and so on. My question is: how would you do all this when you don’t even know how much time you have to do all this? Who can stand up and tell me that he knows exactly when his time will end? Is there any one?

How many of you actually think about your life? Do you even try to ask yourself?

• Who am I?
• Why am I here in this world?
• If I can’t control my life and death then what actually is there that I can control?
• If I am privileged enough to be born in a wealthy family or earn millions then what’s its use? Can it save me from the claws of death?

If you don’t have the answer to all this then all your efforts are useless. It would be a shame to know that despite being highly educated and living a reputable life you are unable to realize your true self.

Can I give you the answers to all these questions? Yes I can. But will I give you the answers? No I won’t? Why? Because it’s your life and You are the judge. What I can tell you is that you control your own destiny. Yes, agreed that you don’t have the power to change your in coming and out going time from this planet but what about the time that you spend in between? You can control that!

Look deep inside your self. Explore your inner and outer world with an open mind and you will find your answers.